PS re divorce

I've been touched by all the recent expressions of concern and support from family & friends. Thank you. It is much appreciated.

FWIW, things are proceeding cordially (WA has a thing called "collaborative law", which avoids the misery associated with an adversarial court process). The kids are doing remarkably well.

The truth is it's not easy, but neither is it the wrenching shock it can be for some. Things have been difficult for a while; it's been a long time since Hannah & I had a marriage we were happy in. We grieve for our dreams, for what might have been, for good things we leave behind. There is of course concern about the kids. But along with the expected sadness and regret is a measure of relief and looking forward to making the best of our lives in whatever time and circumstances we are given.